I am looking for some advice, I am really really struggling with my daughters behaviour recently. She's 4, she's always had a bit of an attitude but recently it's getting completely out of hand, if she doesn't get her own way she will scream the house down and I mean scream, I will put her in her room to calm down and when I go back to get her she's thrown everything of her bed, and chucked every toy in sight at the door. She smacked me and screamed at me the other week because I washed her jacket because it was dirty and she 'likes it dirty', and this caused an hour meltdown. I'm terrified that the neighbours will think that she's being hit with the way she screams. She will just suddenly turn over something stupid and become horrible, if we take anything off her because of her behaviour for example her tablet she actually couldn't even give less of a f*ck. I've asked her why she is behaving the way she is and she says 'it's not me, it's Sophie' (her names sofia) and I said no Sofia it's you, and she says no when I'm bad it's not me it's Sophie coming out.... I've told her I'm going to have to speak to her nursery or the doctors about her behaviour because I cannot cope and she screams and tells me that's embarrassing. I want her to be embarrassed by her behaviour so maybe she'll actually realise she can't behave like that but she genuinely doesn't seem to care!!! Any advice would be amazing.