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Siritops · 09/12/2020 13:46

Is it better to be strict to your child?

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Jannt86 · 09/12/2020 19:22

That's such a generalised question. I think where a lot of people struggle (myself included) is being firm but fair and loving. I think consistency and allowing age appropriate autonomy is key

plumpootle · 09/12/2020 20:37

No, I don't think it is.

Mary8076 · 10/12/2020 23:53

It depends on what strict means. I believe the best is a mix of unconditional love, endless displays of affection, understanding and encouragement, along with very clear and consistent rules, boundaries, requests and the corresponding clearly prearranged rewards and punishments.

Aria999 · 14/12/2020 14:57

Agree with mary8076

I also try not to say no unless I have to (can I put up with this mildly annoying behavior, yes, ok then) but when I say no then that's final.

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