Help! I am feeling so awful and like I just cannot cope anymore everything is a mess and not how it should be. My daughter is 7 and every day without fail it’s a massive Drama to get to school and a massive drama the minute I pick her up. I can’t leave her unattended at all as she is quite literally a danger to herself and younger siblings she will turn on them in an instant pushing and squashing them or tell them to do things like jump off the table (they are nearly 2 and 4).if I take the younger two with me to another room she will be climbing up with stair banister or trying to jump from the upstairs to downstairs. Then she gets in fits of rage where there is no reasoning or calming her down, she is getting more aggressive with it throwing chairs and toys so hard they dent the floor. This week she has kicked the bath panel so hard it has broken and banged her door so much the plaster around it has cracked. Every evening I’m basically just trying to keep everyone safe and it’s no fun for the younger two. We do think there could be underlying issues at play and have been to the Gp and waiting for a paediatrics referral.Middle child is now acting up and basically started talking in baby babble and I know it’s most likely her trying to get attention. I’ve tried everything I can but to be honest I don’t have enough hands with a toddler in the mix too. We don’t do homework and rarely reading. Ive ended up having to quit my job as i just couldn’t manage it with working from home and feeling so drained and also I can’t leave my daughter anywhere like after school club it just doesn’t work. This is just not how I envisaged family life or even just adult life and there seems to be nothing I do that makes anything better. To add to it our living situation isn’t great the youngest is still in our bedroom and likes to climb our bed all night I can’t put her in with the oldest as I don’t think it’s safe and there is no room in the other bedroom. downstairs we have one room and a small kitchen that I can just about get in to cook this is because we had flooding downstairs and the living room isn’t in safe state for us to be in (basically concrete floor and back to bricks on the wall as is half the kitchen)been this way since summer and probably not going to be fixed anytime soon. I’m not sure what I am expecting anyone to say I just feel like I am not being the parent I wanted to be and while I start every day positive it quickly descends into chaos.