I am sorry but this sounds like a normal developmental stage rather than something that needs investigating. At 22 months he simply doesn't have the impulse control not to do something because you've told him not to. He also doesn't have the emotional awareness that would make him feel for you when you get frustrated: if he does something and you shout that sounds quite funny so he'll laugh. He is quite simply to young to understand that you are another "I" just like him.
For the time being, it is your job to keep both him and your property (and hopefully your sanity) safe.
The answer lies in planning.
Make sure furniture is topple-proof, bookcases and things nailed to the wall.
Put breakables away straightaway- don't leave cups sitting around.
When you're doing a job, like cooking or folding clothing, give him a little job to do too: maybe a plastic tub he can stir with a wooden spoon or an old T-shirt to fold. Keep him on the floor away from what you're doing. My grandmother used to have a cupboard full of non-breakables for us to play at cooking when she was busy in the kitchen.
Remember that there is no way he can understand that what he is doing unfolding all your clothes is any less valuable than what you are doing folding them. To his mind, you are both playing a fun game and it is very confusing for him if you get cross. Try to anticipate and keep the no-no's to a small number of items/actions that he can (gradually) learn to remember.
Also ignoring him.
If he laughs when told off, don't rise to it: just calmly repeat what you were saying and stop him from doing whatever it was. Eventually he will learn that it isn't worth trying because mummy gets her way anyway.
If he screams for the phone, let him scream. It won't hurt him and you can always distract yourself by singing or something (I used to do this a lot). It is better for him to learn that he doesn't get things by screaming, that his screaming doesn't frighten you. This may take time to sink in but children get there eventually if you persevere.
It gets better. Work in progress.
The next stage is when they start saying things that would be horrendously hurtful if said by an adult (like, "when are you going to die mummy so I can go and live with Ben's mum?")- again, you have to remember that they just haven't got the emotional development to understand how this comes across.