Ok my little boys' behaviour has been worsening since xmas when he turned 4. I'm concerned he's not happy/ struggling a bit but maybe just pushing boundaries?
Basically talks constantly, at you about his current thing(sea animals atm). Doesn't like to stop and won't answer or reply to me about other stuff. Massive tantrums(physical at me) if I say no to things but contradicts himself and feel like he is looking for a reason to blow up iyswim? Not sleeping till 9/10pm for weeks at a time and says he can't stop thinking. He's in his room now talking to himself after a huge tantrum at 8pm over not getting to play longer.
Issues with creams/ clothing/heat/cold etc etc have always been there but worse since xmas ish time. Also have ongoing issues with him holding wee for hours and hours then getting emotional/tantrumming because he is so uncomfortable. When asked says he didn't need one. Occasionally says it's because he hates washing hands. He wont go in a paddling pool or play in water atm either.
Pre school say he is fine there??!! So if it's my parenting where am I going wrong? I use the book "how to talk so kids will listen" it sometimes works. Help!