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14 month old screaming

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Mazarati · 17/04/2020 19:15

Hi there,

My 14 month old boy has been screaming as a way of communication for a few months now. It's slowly getting worse to the point of it being his sole form of communication. He screams when he's happy, angry, stroppy or simply to get our attention for anything and everything. It's non stop from wake up time of 5am until bedtime at 7pm. Peaking around mealtimes and the end of the day when everyone's exhausted. We teach him baby sign language, I am very calm with it most of the time (even though I'm a jibbering wreck on the inside), I try and talk about his feelings with him (not sure if he understands what I'm saying), and basically try not to rise to it. I even try whispering while he does it. Nothing works. He signs quite a bit, but generally will forego it in favour of a short sharp scream. It's an ears bleeding kind of scream. He's teething his molars, so is very uncomfortable right now, but the screaming has been going on for quite a while now. He is always grabbing his ears but I assume this is teething. Doctors months ago always put the ear tugging down to teething. It's not so easy to see a doctor though right now. Anyone else experienced this? Any ideas on solutions? Or when it may pass? Thanks in advance!

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Jannt86 · 17/04/2020 21:37

Does he say any words? Does he point/clap/wave? Does he seem to follow any instructions or have any kindof receptive language? I don't think there's much you can do about the screaming apart from stay calm and mimick the behaviour that you expect from him. However I think from what you've said it's imperative that you have his hearing checked (don't take no for an answer. A lot of places you can self refer anyway) And if you're still concerned in a few weeks I'd also contact your HV and do the MCHAT screening (I believe it's a few more months til MCHAT is reliable) I can only reassure you that they develop and drop habits on a daily basis at this age and that chances are if you don't make a big thing of it chances are he will grow out of it. Keep an eye out on his development in general though and seek professional help if you're worried xx

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