So my son is 11 and struggled for many years with his attitude, he likes to be alone and classes himself as a adult. That past few weeks his attitude has got worse, he has been refusing to go school, do his homework, throwing letters away so I cant read them, constant attitude and trys to bring my mood down. He goes to his dads every weekend but his dad sings off a different hymn sheet to me, and says hes depressed and in himself and acts like no one likes him. Hes been referred to camhs but they don't see a problem. He has a SEN worker at school, I just feel like everything I try to do isn't working. His dad said he will have him full time, although I think he is just saying this. It sounds awful but I dont enjoy doing things with him as he always is negative about everything and everyone and has a negative opinion on everything anywhere we go. Do i send him to his dads and see if he realises? But then if he lives at his dads and becomes a better child. And I see him 2/3 times a week, am I a bad mother?