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language/stammering in a 2.6 yr old - any link to super-sensitive hearing?

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Lovecat · 28/08/2007 13:47

My dd has developed a stammer/stutter over the last month or so. To begin with, it was at the end of the day and we assumed it was because she was tired - however, it is now pretty much constant and has got to the point where she goes red in the face and is almost crying with the effort to get the word out. Anything beginning with J, M or N gives her real problems.

Her actual language itself is not massively advanced either - I've been a bit ostrich-like with this, telling myself not to compare her to others, that they're all developing differently, but a trip last week with her nursery group just brought home how far behind she is with her peers in terms of making sentences. Her key worker didn't seem to think there was a problem, but then she didn't notice the stammer either til I pointed it out to her, so my confidence in her is not high...

dd does understand everything we say to her, and will, on occasion, come out with a word and surprise us (eg in a few weeks ago she ate a biscuit, grinned at me and said 'that was delicious') but these times are few and far between and in fact in the last week or so she appears to be regressing, communicating by squeaking and grunting.

Anyway, we have self-referred to our local speech therapy and language centre and are waiting for an appointment - we've been told it won't be more than 6 weeks, and given her age it may be sooner, as they go in for early intervention.

In the meantime, I'm wondering whether or not it's worth contacting the GP (getting an appointment is all but impossible) about her hearing. I've again put this off in the past because it seemed like a mildly ridiculous thing to say - 'doctor, doctor, my child hears too well', but she is constantly asking 'what's that noise', putting her hands to her ears and in some cases screaming because the noise is upsetting her so much (in particular Tesco's beeping checkouts, for some reason - other supermarkets don't have the same effect).

Could this be having an effect on her language? I looked it up on't net but couldn't find a lot of info one way or the other. I was thinking I should maybe try and see the GP before the speech therapist assessment, so that I have all the info available, but I don't know if it's going to be worthwhile or not - it's so hard getting an appointment and at the moment I'm so stressed (I just feel like crying all the time at the mo) over dd's self-frustration at not being able to say what she wants that I don't know what to do.

Anyone else had to go through this? Any ideas?

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frazzledbutcalm · 28/08/2007 14:48

There may be a prob but i doubt it. I think its a stage some kids go through. a friend of mines dd is now 3, she's always been a very good talker but not stammers quite a lot. i think their brain just doesnt connect for how fast they talk and for all they want to say!! my dd now 4, never had a problem at all but suddenly now seems to hesitate, thinking about what she wants to say and makes this silly 'em' til she eventually spits it out!! Frustrating!

Lovecat · 29/08/2007 08:53

Thank you Frazzled, I'm hoping that that's all it is, her brain working faster than her mouth will go... but I can't help worrying (pfb and all that!)

Still don't know whether to go to the docs or not re. the hearing thing - has no-one else's dc's had this??

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orkmum · 29/08/2007 09:00

I too wouldn't over worry as they have a lot to get out and their mouths can not always catch up. However, it is def worth seeing the speach therapist. We too self referreed and have been given lots of reassurance and some exercises to do.

gess · 29/08/2007 09:08

Yes super-sensitive hearing can have a major effect on a child's language.

Google AIT (auditory integration training).

To really understand how much of a massively major effect it can have read "sound of a miracle' by Annabel Stehli. Her dd's (severe) autism was 'cured' once they sorted out her hearing. Annabel said she later realised that Georgi wasn't crazy, she was crazed. She could hear toilets flushing 3 flats away.

DS1 has supersensitive hearing- the noises he can't tolerate change so sometimes he can't bear the microwave, for a while it was small planes (big planes were fine).

AIT can really help though.

Lovecat · 29/08/2007 09:15

Thank you Gess - I was sure I'd read something about it in the past, but all I could find on the net was stuff about poor hearing affecting speech!

Will make further investigations...

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gess · 29/08/2007 09:17

If you're in the SW of the country CAT me as I know someone locally who supplies AIT equipment that you can use at home (actually CAT me anyway if you want that they may send it). It's cheaper that the suppliers. Or you could look into buying the listening programme if you're going to use it quite a bit.

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