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How to get my 5 year old to continue with gymnastics?

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Lottiegirl97 · 20/11/2019 22:24

My 5 year old dd has been going to gymnastics for 3 weeks. On the third occasion she was reluctant and I had to persuade her, but once there she seems to enjoy it. Last week she had a meltdown and I couldn't get her to go at all. She's now already saying that she doesn't want to go tomorrow. When I ask her why, she doesn't really have a reason, but I know one of the factors is because parents aren't allowed in the gym hall and she wants me to be there.

Of course I don't want to force her to do anything that she doesn't want to do, but I know she enjoys it once there (I looked through the window and she was all smiles). I don't want this to start a precedent of giving up too easily and not giving things a go.

Do you think I should continue to try and get her to go and, if so, how?! She has a really stubborn streak and don't want to force her screaming into the car. Any strategies I could try? Thanks.

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Jossina · 21/11/2019 05:57

Is she the same with other activities that require separation, like school? Or visiting family/friends?

Lottiegirl97 · 21/11/2019 07:43

Hi Jossina - no, generally she's fine. Being left a t school (started reception this year), family and friends all fine. She is also having a problem with after-school club (goes twice a week) on the day when her friends don't go. Again she enjoys it when there.

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NoKnit · 21/11/2019 20:53

At 5 this is totally normal behaviour so I wouldn't push it. Maybe next year she'll want to go, maybe she won't but that doesn't matter. Why force her?

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