Ahh where do I start?!
My 1yro is having the most awful tantrums, he will throw his whole body backwards and he doesn’t care if he hits his head in the meantime. He throws himself back even in my arms and has made my nose bleed frequently.
My 3yro used to have awful tantrums and still sometimes does, although now they’re a lot more manageable.
Both my boys have strong characters and are very strong willed.
I’ve had my own personal issues during the last month so I’ve probably struggled with handling the temper tantrums abit more than usual. I look at my friends children, especially girls and they seem such angels. Don’t get me wrong I know all children come with their own downfalls, if that’s what you would call them. So I’m not in denial, I just don’t know why my toddler has such a short temper. If he has something in his hand that he shouldn’t and I take it off him gently, he will throw himself backwards even on our tiled kitchen floor. I always have to predict it to save his landing.
I just feel so low from it all and there’s always something with him. I’m really struggling with his personality. He is just pushing limits I know this but it’s absolutely draining.
I would love to try for a little girl in the future but his tantrums are genuinely making me reconsider trying for another at all! I don’t think I could put up with this again.
DH works abroad so it’s just myself and my 15yro step daughter at home with the boys. I think DH thinks I just can’t handle it and my job as a stay at home mum should be easier than I make it out to be. So I get no sympathy or understanding from his side.
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Cheeseandpickle1 · 14/11/2019 10:54
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