My 6 year old is acting up, it's hard for me to say how much as I have him every other day and he isnt that bad for me he has his mood swings now and again but I generally put a stop to it fairly quick with time out until he calms down.
He acts up quite alot at home apparently and I always sit him down on my days with him if I hear he has been naughty at home and explain that I wont put up with it and there will be consequences when he is with me, such as no computer for a week or no playing out. Other than that I am out of options on what i could do.
Now i am being dictated to by his mother on what he is and isnt allowed to do when he is with me, I understand maybe a temporary consequence when he is with me if she asks until his attitude improves. She wont listen and all of a sudden she is "just doing this all on her own".
We split 2 years ago and as far as he knows I am the one who left so I have to be the bad guy for now and the bad guy again for not punishing my son when he is good with me.
Just to make it clear I have nothing against his mother, I wouldn't ever say a bad word about her. The majority of the time she is an amazing mother and to me that's all that matters now but this whole thing seems unreasonable.
Am I wrong?? Should I be doing everything she asks even when I think she is wrong??
I honestly need an outside opinion
Thanks in advance