Hi,
My first time posting here but would love some help.
So i have a 3 year old just turned 3 in august and he goes to a school nursery.
I was hearing off other children that my son was being naughty and the teachers hadnt told me. I pulled his teacher to a side and she said that he wasnt naughty he was disuprtive and very immature for his age. Anyway i asked if she could let me know when he is misbehaving so i could have a word.
Weeks have gone by and im thinking to myself wow hes being good in nursery now as no teacher had told me any different and when i asked they was saying hes been fine.
On friday it was school photo day and he had a picture done wih his sister didnt really want it doing went in a mood about it. Took him into nursery and said to the teacher he is grumoy this morning and her reply was he is always like that with us hes very immature and wont listen he constantly screams and doesnt like to sit down and listen. She said i have done him a sticker chart and he hasnt even got one sticker on it. I got upset by this as it was infront of other parents. I suggested a meeting but because i was angry i went to head teacher and complained about the way i spoken to. Also that day he didnt get his picture done on his own so they said would look.
Today i take him in and his teacher is greeting the children into class. As soon i come to her she goes he wouldnt have his picture done on friday so you dont have one for her then to greet other children.
Today school have phoned to say he has bit another childs finger. Which he has bitten anyone since the beginning of the age of 2.
His speech isnt the best, i had to get him some new school shoes as school had left his wet underpant on and pants on friday which soaked through of urine to his socks and shoes. This morning he kicked off about putting new shoes on. He doesnt like change. If anyone touches him he doesnt no he will scream and i mean scream.
Can anyone help on what i should do? Sorry for the long post i did suggest a meeting with the teacher which hasnt been arranged and also if an additional support needs teacher could just watch over him just to see if he just naughty or if he has additional needs but the head teacher diagreed to this just yet.