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Hyper little guy help

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Peaches2018 · 03/11/2019 16:14

Hi Mumsnet

I'm really in need of some help / advice!! When my DS (almost 17 months) was smaller he was sitting happily in his bouncy chair watching one or 2 episodes of his favourite programme while letting his formula settle and I could quickly put up the wash or clean up the bathroom (the one place I don't want him near me due to all the cleaning bottles) Slowly he started to sit more in front of the telly and it became a routine in the morning and evening. The past few weeks due to horrific teething (the canines are coming) it's starting to be a afternoon habit too!!!! Aaaahhhh not good!!! He's not walking yet but crawling on hyper speed, has a ton of energy and finds himself lately in 2 places I really don't want to have him and I'm blocking them off by moving furniture. Thing is I've been trying to sit down and read with him (he tries to eat the books) colouring (again pencils and crayons are seen as a snack) his toys (are also being chewed on) but it seems that nothing is keeping his attention / entertain him unless you call climbing on me and the sofas and pulling my hairs a great sport. He sometimes plays with his toys but more often he doesn't and he's getting in a clingy phase again as well.
I'm feeling horrible, can't carry him around the whole day and especially when he sits in his chair to watch a few things so I can free up my hands and get a few house chores done I'm really thinking what I can do with him /entertain him and teach him things a bit. Any advice or tips on what to do with my DS? Any other mums with hyper active little ones with ideas are more than welcome please

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Peaches2018 · 03/11/2019 18:24

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AladdinMum · 04/11/2019 10:03

Is there any chance for you to take him out daily to do local activities? soft play, playgroup, toddler classes, swimming pool, nursery? they learn a lot by just being out and looking at different things.

Peaches2018 · 04/11/2019 10:44

@AladdinMum We've got one class we attend a week and he's finally getting a bit more confident and stop crying as well when he sees new people but if we take a break from family or the group I need to build that up again since he's quite shy.
There are no other kids his age around in the street / family most of them are a few years older and since I'm a sahm he's going to nursery at 3 and not before.
I've heard good things of DHA vitamins for brain development (and eye since I hope he doesn't get my horrible sight lol) and I'm hoping that might help too with his development

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AladdinMum · 04/11/2019 14:57

That is great, try to go to the class consistently, without taking breaks if possible, as at this age toddlers thrive with routine. I found that swimming and swimming lessons really increases confidence too. If possible I would recommend he mixes with other children way before 3 years old - whether that be in playgroups, nursery or other regular social settings, specially if he is a shy child. By 3 years old they would have formed a personality and be set on their ways, and many of his peers would have been in regular social environments for years already.

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