2.5 year olds behaviour wearing me down

[Newmum26]

My DS is going through a challenging phase where he is kicking off over the most silly things and at the moment it seems to be every day which is wearing me down 😩
This morning he woke up at 6.30am happy and ww walked into the kitchen to get his milk in his cup and daddy had already done it and gave it to him to which his totally lost it and started shouting and screaming 'Mummy is supposed to do that' and it turned into a full blown kick off all before 7am 😭😭

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They just go through these weird and wonderful phases. Currently my 2 year 10 month old is kicking off because I served him satsuma instead of apple, I’m ignoring him. You will Find he goes through this one and will then start another one. Sometimes I think not being able to communicate everything doesn’t help. Hope it improves soon for you

Yep I'm with you here. My DS is 2.3yrs. He has found that he can call the shots with a meltdown. We are similar and start the day (6:30am) with him asking for an ice pole, being told no and que meltdown number 1. He also kicks off majorly whenever he goes to doctors, hospital, hairdressers etc which has never been an issue before. It gets embarrassing and draining but I'm the same and hoping is a phase. I'm also dealing with the physical side as well he hits and kicks when having his meltdown. I keep reminding myself he's only 2 and trying to find his way but I'm struggling to see an end right now! I dread having to take him anywhere at the moment. Sorry to long post but just wanted to share is you know you are not alone. X

Currently going through this with my 3yo
It's everyday soon as he wakes, kicking off and throwing tantrums over everything, can't do anything to help him. It does totally get you down, I'm sure it's just phases they all go through but it's tough :(