When I went to pick DS up from nursery on Monday, the nursery manager pulled me aside to say she's concerned about DS not eating whilst there.
For context, he started nursery in July and goes two days a week from 9-5. The mealtimes there mean he's there for lunch and tea/snack at 3pm. Most days I go to collect him, he won't have eaten all his lunch or tea. Sometimes he'll have had half his lunch, rarely he'd have eaten all of it. Same goes with tea.
So when the nursery manager was speaking to me, she asked how he eats at home. I said fine mostly, sometimes he is fussy. In fact his fussiness at mealtimes only begun since starting nursery. She also asked about his weight and I said he's gaining at a steady pace. He hovers around 2nd centile but there have never been concerns when he's been weighed (last weigh in happened to be about 2 weeks ago while being tested for egg and dairy allergy).
I couldn't really offer reasons why DS was not eating there but they also mentioned he seems to be tired by mid morning. Again, I didnt know why this is as he's fine at home.
She said they'll keep an eye on things, but if it continues, they may contact a HV. I said that's fine but it's left me feeling a little deflated. I also don't understand how the HV would help in this situation. Am I being a bit over sensitive? He's well looked after at home. He is very small for his age but is in good health? I think it's his smallness that is the driving factor for their concerns, which really irritates me as I feel it'll be a common theme for him growing up.
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Nursery wants to contact HV about 15mo not eating whilst there
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FTMF30 · 25/09/2019 02:00
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