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Would you give your two year old milk in the night?

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cba · 29/07/2007 19:44

my dd is 2. Every night for about six months she has woke up and asked for milk. It started when she was teething. But, instead of nipping it in the bud once she had recovered I didnt. Now, she dosent wake every night, usually five out of seven nights. Now I have two boys also 4 and 6 so I am pretty shattered.

I decided to get tough and three nights ago I went in and said there is no milk but I will give you a cuddle. She kept asking to go downstairs and I said "no, but I will lay here and give you a cuddle before you got to sleep". I laid for about 10 mins then put her back to bed and left the room. She screamed for an hour, saying she needed everything from medicine to a banana, then screaming she is tired. Well, if you are tired go to bloody sleep.

Good thing is nothing wakes the boys. Bad thing is, she then woke at five thrity for the day. I took her downstairs for milk, she gulped it down and then made her upstairs to go to bed. The next night she slept through, last night was a repeat of the above.

What should I do, give her the milk after all I am only up 10 mins and she goes straight back to sleep. If I dont give her the milk I lose an hour in the night and also a crack of dawn morning start. Dont think I could put her back to bed that time of the morning shouting as I think it would cause the boys to get up at dawn as well.

Anyone had this?

Advice appreciated.

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Tortington · 30/07/2007 16:03

i'm sorry this is attention seeksiing - i woudl rather have a week of crap and a lifetime of good sleep

my line woudl be "shut yer gobbins and go to sleep"

its like deliberatley giving them somethng that will wake them up early so they can go for a wee.....why inflict that upon yourself

Rantmum · 30/07/2007 16:05

My ds gets a cup of hot milk at about 7.30pm just before he gets ready for bed. He also gets a cup of milk when he wakes up in morning at 7 am. I think the nighttime cup keeps him full and hydrated through the night - have you tried giving your dd some milk at bedtime? It might prevent the nightime/early waking...

Rantmum · 30/07/2007 16:10

Appreciate, though, that if you are toilet training the nighttime milk may be just as bad - I like the sippy cup of water next to the bed and letting her cry it out.

(we had a "cry it out" night with ds last night for no clear reason, ds just woke up and cried and cried, after making sure that all was well we had to put him back to bed about 8 times over a 2 hour period, so I understand COMPLETELY that it is horrible - I have been tired and crabby all day today as a result )

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