I don’t know if I am being unreasonable or not. My son started nursery in December, he has just turned 4 in May. Before this he was with my every single day etc.
Yesterday I received a call from preschool and was asked to attend a meeting. The meeting was with his teacher and the preschool manager. I automatically thought it was unusual for the manager to attend. Anyhow, during this meeting I was told my son is extremely ‘clingy’ to me and I need to try to readjust this, I was also told my son does not like to attempt tasks asked by his teacher, he says “that’s dangerous, mummy says I cannot do dangerous things” I didn’t think too much into at the meeting, I explained that yes we are extremely close and yes we both are very attached (which honestly I don’t think is a bad thing at all, he doesn’t cry when I drop him off to preschool he just likes to stick with me for a few moments before he settles) he has a sister he communicates well with, including friends outside of preschool with whom he has had sleepovers with (with no problems)
When I come to collect him from preschool his teacher barely says hello, nor the manager. And yes, I am one of the parents that say “hi, how has he been today?” I like to know he was ok and doing well. We are relocating at the end of summer so he will be starting a new school anyway. But do you think I should mention anything? Do you think the teacher has a valid reason to arrange this meeting with the manager. I’m just so very confused by it, to be fair I’ve had a fair few problems with this preschool already but decided to stay quiet as it was nothing harmful towards my son, it almost seems like a target to me.
Any advise would be great. Thank you. x