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12 month old tantrums - normal?

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Haz1516 · 28/06/2019 14:05

Hi,

My baby is 12.5 months old and has always had quite a full on temperament, but seemed to get calmer with each milestone. However, he is lately throwing full on tantrums (like throwing himself to the ground and head banging style), and my mother in law has made me concerned that there might be something wrong. For the past couple of weeks, the full on tantrums have probably happened once a day, but in between he has lots of mini ones any time he is told no, or moved away from somewhere (generally dangerous) that he otherwise wants to be. It's very hard to know how best to comfort him at these times.

He is also a very active little boy. He has been walking for around a month, and now pretty much runs everywhere constantly. He doesn't really ever want to sit and play with toys anymore, but will just grab things and carry them from one place to another generally. He is meeting his other milestone fine, gives cuddles, doesn't have any proper words yet but points at things he wants or is interested in all the time and can shake his head for no (which is often at the moment!!). He used to wave but seems to have stopped?

Basically, is it a cause for concern at this age to be having these big tantrums? And does anyone have any tips on how to react?

Thanks.

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Haz1516 · 28/06/2019 14:06

Also to add, he fights naps no matter how exhausted he is and is so difficult to get him to take them. Although at night times he goes down fine.

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UpsAndDowns13 · 28/06/2019 15:58

Mine was exactly the same and I also googled whether it was normal at the time! It seemed far too early for the tantrums to start. I think it's pretty normal to be honest! Just distract and move on. It gets easier when they start to talk. Mine is only 20 months but the tantrums are a lot better now she has more understanding and language.

UpsAndDowns13 · 28/06/2019 16:01

Ps - mine was also an epic nap fighter!

Haz1516 · 29/06/2019 06:42

Thank you! Glad to hear he's not the only one.
Other babies his age at baby group still seem so chilled, but I suppose that's maybe always been the way.

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Rubyduby26 · 29/06/2019 13:23

My DS is almost 15 months and he started with tantrums about 2 months ago so I think it's normal! People have told me it's strange as well as he's so young but I think people just forget by the time their kids are grown up lol!

Our DS's sound very similar with the never sitting still and running everywhere! I'm sure when they can talk and understand more the tantrums will calm down (I'm hoping anyway 😂)

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Haz1516 · 30/06/2019 10:25

Thank you, again I'm glad that others have experienced it too. I'm hoping it's just a passing phase at the moment... I don't know if I can cope with this for the whole of the toddler years!

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