My DS9 continually has poor behaviour at school, mainly not listening and being easily distracted but more recently he's become heavy handed with his friends which is new (as far as we know)
We have moved many times due to being in the military and this time round it's the biggest school DS has had to attend.
We have a very happy home, DH and I have always had a positive relationship. Since the beginning of the year DD started at boarding school so DS is the only child in the home most of the time.
People are always telling me what a lovely, thoughtful young man he is so why is school so hard?
Every single school has been the same and i just don't know where to turn? He blames everyone else for his behaviour and makes excuses. Then when we sit and discuss it with him he says "i don't know" (why I was in trouble).
The latest thing was he told someone that his dad slaps him so it's okay to do it to others ( this is absolutely not true and he said so himself when questioned) obviously the school followed this up.
Arghhhh!