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My partner can be a bit harsh about my 6 year old

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Cherim90 · 22/04/2019 17:12

My daughter is 6 just gone, she's hard work, well she can be more than most. But I think sometimes that depends on who she is with and what attitude they have towards her. She is usually quite well behaved for me. But every time and I mean everytime my partner has her lately I come back from work or even just 45 mins of peace (I'm pregnant and exhausted) I come back to him in a pissy about how my daughter has behaved he says things like she's your problem now I've had enough etc etc honestly he will go on about her behaviour so much it's actually boring. He talks about her behaviour in front of her aswell which I don't think is the best thing because we disagree and then she hears that. He expects so much from her and sometimes I've heard him have the attitude with her before she's even started so it's no surprise she wants to be with me all of the time. He's now gone to his mums to sulk down the road and came in the house and gone upstairs in the bedroom on his own. I'm 3-4 months pregnant and I'm not worried about having this baby I coped with my daughter on my own so if I do it on my own again so be it. I've tried talking to him about it and now I think I'm gonna take it out of his hands and not let him have her on his own, it's more stress than it's worth right now

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7raina · 22/04/2019 21:07

She's only 6 wts wrong with him? Sounds like he's not her biological father?
And defo discussing child attitude infront of them is a big no no.
Do not leave her alone with him. I would Neva leave my child if they were complaining that much even if it was their dad.
Makes me think how's he gona be with new baby.
Have lovely pregnancy x

AladdinMum · 22/04/2019 22:38

"He's now gone to his mums to sulk"...... urm, how old is he? :)

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