Advice please! My 19 m/o is going through a really frustrating phase at mealtimes. She’ll sit in her high chair, have a few bites then start stretching out her arms and howling to sit in my lap. If I put her in my lap she may then eat a bit more, but also squirms around, stands up etc and we both end up covered in food and cross. If I leave her in the chair she just gets even more worked up and won’t eat anything else. If I tell her the meal is over and put her down to play, she shrieks and demands to be picked up. I don’t want her to get into the habit of sitting on me (although I wouldn’t mind if she actually finished her meal and didn’t get it all over me!) but leaving her there howling isn’t a good option either. She has always been a pretty good eater and fine in her high chair up to now so I know it’s a phase - just need to know the best way to navigate it. I want to stay calm and keep mealtimes relaxed but it’s very difficult when every meal ends with a tantrum over nothing.