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DH is dyslexic, what are the chances for DC to be the same?

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Greatexpectations1 · 21/02/2019 10:26

Hello,

So my DH is dyslexic and it seems to run in his family, both his sisters are too and they all struggled at school. However they all did pretty well in life and my DH is a small encyclopaedia. He’s got a very curious mind and reads a lot, however he struggles to spell and gets confused when spelling different words: I.e. bored vs board, here vs hear etc. Also I think this had a major impact on his self-esteeem and confidence.

I grew up in a different country and English is my second language, however we don’t have any dyslexia in my immediate or extended family, in fact I didn’t know what dyslexia was until a few years ago.

We have a toddler who seems very bright and who understands and learns very quickly, however I can’t help but worry that she might inherit her dad’s learning difficulty. I know there is a lot of support available nowadays, but I’d still be very upset by it.

Anyone with a similar background, would love to hear your stories x

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AladdinMum · 21/02/2019 10:59

According to the UK Dyslectic Society -> "Current research suggests that if either a father or a mother is dyslexic their sons have approximately a 75% of being dyslexic, whilst girls will have a 25% chance. Therefore it is by no means certain that your child and especially your daughter - will be dyslexic."

BeeMyBaby · 25/02/2019 22:10

That's really interesting aladdinsmum - my father is dyslexic and my sister and I are dyslexic but my two brothers aren't. It just shows that you never know!

cushioncuddle · 26/02/2019 20:56

My father is dyslexic. I'm dyslexic. Both my children are too. Bit and girl.

cushioncuddle · 26/02/2019 20:56

Boy and girl.

BeeMyBaby · 27/02/2019 06:57

I would add that I remember a bilingual friend taking the dyslexia test at university, they asked her if she only spoke one language till 5 as it seemed if there were two then the results would be skewed and unreliable, I don't really know why. Both my daughters have learnt phonetically reading English and Arabic since they were 4yo, my younger daughter seemed to have some difficulties but I think the second reading language really helped her mind. Perhaps growing up bilingual will help your DC?

Greatexpectations1 · 27/02/2019 21:47

Thank you everyone. I am hoping that raising her bilingual will help her.

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KingIrving · 28/02/2019 01:50

I am reading this book right now www.amazon.co.uk/Language-Speed-Sight-Read-About/dp/1541617150/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=mark+seidenberg&tag=mumsnetforum-21&ie=UTF8&qid=1551318402&sr=8-1 and it is quite fascinating to discover all the mechanism involved in reading especially in a language as complex as English. Some of the concepts made me think for hours, such as the words MINT and PINT so similar on paper but so different when said aloud .

I recommend it to any parent of young children.

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