Our recently turned 5 year old has a terrible temper. She has always stood up to her demands and when she is better behaved give her choices. However, more recently they have been so bad. She is currently in her room throwing things around and banging on doors, walls and furniture and screaming. The reason why she is there because she snatched her brother car from him (it was his birthday yesterday - so his new car from granddad) when I asked her to give it back she wouldn’t and said he will just have to play with something else. Took it from her, told her to go and sit to one side for a minute, she refused and so I said the step etc etc anyway it escalated to her being in her room for screaming and throwing a tantrum.
We’ve had similar things almost every night recently, yesterday I told her if she doesn’t behave today then she can’t go to the birthday party tomorrow. I’ve cancelled that (paying for her place) we’ve just got to the point that we don’t know where else to go? What to do to try and control this screaming little madam!