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I’m really struggling.

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Laylalala · 11/01/2019 06:08

Being a Mum has never come naturally to me. I have a 2 year old little boy. The first 6 months of his life I was plagued with post natal depression and struggled to bond. It didn’t help that he NEVER slept and cried all day (colic and reflux baby). This is no longer an issue, I love my beautiful little toddler more than words could ever describe and every day he makes me laugh or smile in some way or another, they are definitely lots of fun at this age.
But recently in the last few months he is just so, well, naughty!!! Every night at bedtime it’s a screaming match for 2 hours no matter what we do. He will actually scream until he pukes! He fights naps in the day even though he’s unbelievably tired and is then miserable as a result. He throws food across the room that I’ve spent hours preparing. He’ll scream and cry in public after only a short amount of time. Everything is “NO!”. Anything he can destroy- he will. My once nice home now just looks like crap.
Is this the terrible two’s? I have friends with little ones the same age who seem so chilled. He’s always been ‘spirited’ but now it’s just on another level and I am really struggling. I feel guilty even saying this but I think it’s making me not want any more kids?! Someone please tell me it’s a phase...

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AladdinMum · 11/01/2019 09:36

How is his verbal and non-verbal communication? around this age they start getting really frustrated as their thoughts/needs become much more complex and they are unable to effectively express themselves.

Laylalala · 11/01/2019 10:54

Thanks for your reply, yeah he is just starting to learn a few words but can’t string a sentence together or anything. I can imagine it’s frustrating for him

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mude · 11/01/2019 13:39

My 2yo can't handle a nap anymore. Is way worse when she has a sleep. Try and drop it and power through without for a few days. When mine is being like this I go into Mary poppins more. Firm fair and calm but loads of love and attention and good activities. You might be in a negative cycle with it where you can feel a tantrum coming on so he can feel your tension and it'll make him worse

AladdinMum · 11/01/2019 16:14

Ah, it could be that then, he does does a little bit speech delayed as the average 2 year old will have between 50-200 words with some 2 word sentences. How is his non-verbal communication, i.e. gesturing? like pointing to request, pointing to share enjoyment like a plane in the sky? eye contact? etc. infants that are speech delayed will compensate with an increase use of gestures.

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