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He's way too clingy :(

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DietCokeIsBae · 11/12/2018 21:00

My 15 month old is really getting me down. In the last few weeks his behaviour had nose dived.

He won't eat much of his food anymore despite them being things he likes - will only really have fruit, yoghurts, crisps, toast and spaghetti hoops - he loves spaghetti hoops.

During the day he's stopped playing independently and is in constant need of my presence. He doesn't always want my attention but he needs me to be within a metre of him. If I get up to do something he'll have a tantrum and start hitting things and throwing books. He has also hit me a few times and pulled my glasses off my face.

He tries to push me away from kitchen cupboards when I'm washing up and will stand in front of me reaching up for me to pick him up which I will sometimes, other times I step around him and continue what I'm doing.

He doesn't laugh as much as he used to, he's more whiny and fussy.

I worry that he's bored, I worry he's not happy, I worry that he can't be independent and happy playing by himself.

Two good points are that he's very good at sleeping and rarely wakes up at night and we do read together quite a lot in the daytime.

That said I'm so upset and I'm drained, I'm actually clock-watching leading up to bedtime and when I realise that I am I feel so bad I could cry. What's going on? Is this normal? X

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lovely36 · 11/12/2018 22:09

Awe I'm sorry you're feeling that way. My son is 15 months too and we're actually going through the same thing. My son is growing out his molars. That might be why your son is acting that way? When he cries have a look in his mouth. Usually the bottom ones grow out first. If you see them growing it, that'll be why he's stopped eating,is fussy and all that. It's tough. I haven't slept in about two weeks. He wakes up every hour, during the day cries, whines, trust me I'm drainedddd to say the least. Have you tried going on walks with him? I take my son on two walks a day. One in the morning before his nap and one in the afternoon after his lunch. I noticed when he begins to get whiny if I take him out in the fresh air and let him walk for as long as he likes, he comes home and is a lot calmer. Also he burns off some energy. And don't feel bad for counting down the hours, I do it all the time too but I think it's not because he don't love them or enjoy their company, it's because that's when we finally get a break! Being a mom is hard work.!!

DietCokeIsBae · 12/12/2018 12:27

Thankyou so much for replying - yes his molars are coming though. He got 3 at once a month or so ago and was absolute hell on earth during the week with me and drove me to tears a few times. He'd be much easier to handle on weekends when myself and DP could tag-team playtime with him though!

But I have noticed that the one that didn't come with the others has now starting cutting through so maybe it's that?

I'm just really hoping that this is because of the teething and when that stops then this behaviour will ease up and not that this is just how he's going to be from now on because he's completely changed and I really don't want him to have a childhood where I feel like I'm shouting at him 75% of the time. It's really no fun at all and makes me feel like a sh*t mum.

I'm feeling a little better just knowing I'm not alone with this. x

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lovely36 · 12/12/2018 15:06

My son is growing out 3 molars and his bottom third tooth. It's awful. Can't get 5 minutes to myself without him wanting me to hold him. Yes you're not alone xx
Hang in there, hopefully they settle soon, I'm exhausted!!

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