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Mummyoftwo2018 · 11/11/2018 19:17

Hello mummies I need some advice on my child's behaviour, she constantly shouts and screams and me and my partner no matter what we do for her, we can take her out to fun places and she still throws it in our faces, we have taken away Tv privileges her fave toys and even tried time out and having a calm supportive convo where she can tell us how she feels with no one getting upset or angry and nothing just don't seem to work 😔

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 12/11/2018 21:28

How old is your DD OP?

Mummyoftwo2018 · 13/11/2018 10:13

She just turned six but she has been like this since she was about 3/4 n she just getting worse

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Hallloumi · 13/11/2018 11:45

What is she like at school and with other adults and children?
Have you sorted hunger and tiredness as major causes of bad behaviour?
What are things like at home otherwise- siblings, your relationship with your partner?
Does she get regalar/ideally daily 1on1 time with you and her Dad?
Do you have regular routines so she knows what to expect?
Are you consistent (in yourself and with your partner) in how you deal with her?
Have you read any parenting books already? what did you like/find helpful?

Am not expecting you to give us the answers to all this on here more that these are all things to consider (and I'm no expert).

Have a look at some the recent threads on here about 4 year olds behaviour. Quite a few ideas on them that can apply to 6 year olds as well.

Mummyoftwo2018 · 13/11/2018 16:15

Me and partner are fine and she has a set routine haven't changed anything and me and partner agree on everything and she perfectly fine at school, she also an only child so no sibling rivalry she has cousins but she fine with them and other children at school she fine with other adults it just towards me and my partner

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Hallloumi · 13/11/2018 17:54

Sounds like you have the basics right.
Maybe worth discussing specifically with her teacher(s) anyway.

There won't be one easy solution but books friends, family and I have found useful include:
'The incredible years'
'Calm parents, happy kids- the secret to stress free parenting'- Laura Markham- she has a website: www.ahaparenting.com
the gentle parenting book- also there is a website: www.gentleparenting.co.uk
'How to talk so kids will listen' and 'how to talk so little kids will listen' books

Mummyoftwo2018 · 15/11/2018 09:29

Thank you I will check them out :) we have even tried being more lenient with her but that still don't seem to work, tbh she not a bad child just challenging

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