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What's been your favourite and then most difficult age?

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imamummy · 09/06/2007 09:30

I have a daughter who is nearly 5 months now and wondering what everyone's favourite age has been.

I have no idea what it's like to have an older child but absolutely love it now as I'm not quite so sleep deprived and every week seems to bring a new stage in development.

Also what's been the hardest time - for me when my daughter was about 2 weeks old as I was so tired by then and hadn't got the hang of understanding my baby's cries/ knowing to wind her etc.!

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sniff · 09/06/2007 09:33

love babies 0-12 months

have t admit not likin the able to walk but not confidently, climbing but dangerously, into everything with no sense, age about 14-20 months

mind I have a nearly nine yr old too and his mouth is beginning to get to me the commentshe makes !!!!!!!!

francagoestohollywood · 09/06/2007 09:34

my first was an appalling baby, so each developmental stage was a big improvement.
dd was an easy baby, but I found very hard the stage between 10 and 18 months, as I also had an active toddler to follow...
I think each stage is both hard and lovely iyswim...

Scanner · 09/06/2007 09:34

Hardest up to 12 weeks
Fav 4 - 8

Don't know beyond 8, but have three children 4,5&7 - birthday soon and feel that I'm at a lovely point with them. They can all communicate, no more nappies, high chairs, plastic, stairgates, buggies etc At the same time we haven't got into 'attitude' yet. DD1 occassionaly gets a bit shirty, but they all still want cuddles and are great fun.

popsycal · 09/06/2007 09:43

My favourite age so far has been the 18 month - 2 and a half years period. They just become such a little person in the time.

For me, the hardest bit is the first few months. Having said that, my oldest hasn't hit 5 yet, so maybe the hardest is to come....

imamummy · 09/06/2007 09:45

Sniff that made me smile as reminded me of me at that age - my parents asked me to answer the phone when it rang during supper and I screamed out 'mum, it's that lady you don't like!'

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Chandra · 09/06/2007 09:54

My favourite age is now (4) although I'm sure I would be saying the same about 5 years olds next year. The more proficient he becomes in communicating his ideas, worries and ask questions the more I enjoy the time with him.

I think he was at his cutest between 1.5 and 2.5 years old, but he is soooo much more good fun now.

boomie · 09/06/2007 09:56

My dds are nearly 6 and nearly 3 and I must admit I am kinda loving them at the moment. DD1 has blossomed into a beautiful, caring, loving and sensitive little thing. DD2 is full of fun, cheeky and a joy to be with. They both play (most of the time) lovely together and life is getting a bit easier. We have no problem taking them out for a coffee or a meal.

The hardest stage was when I had DD1 - lack of sleep was just the worst.

DumbledoresGirl · 09/06/2007 10:03

Now is definitely the best time. I am conscious of it almost daily. My children are (nearly) 11, 9, 7 and 4 and it is great. They are at school/playgroup, learning things so they have interesting things to talk about,; at the same time they are gaining independence so my workload is lighter in some ways; and they are still young enough to participate as a family and to play and have innocent fun. This is what I had children for, for them to be roughly junior school aged.

In terms of babies, the best age is, IMO, from about 9 to 18 months because again, they gain independence (crawling/walking) and develop personalities (talking). In those months, something new seems to happen every day. Oh and they are too young to be having tantrums!

pointydog · 09/06/2007 10:09

most difficuklt age - 3

best - always now

tuppy · 09/06/2007 12:15

Love newborns and tiny toddlers just walking.

For me, hard work is between 2 and rising 4 ish.

Best is 4 - 10. Definitely the golden years.

Beginning to get attitude from ds1 and 2 at 12 and 13...

My others are 3.5 and 8. The 3.5 is lovely now most of the time but has been VERY hard work.

juuule · 09/06/2007 14:19

All of them. They all have their good and bad points

sniff · 09/06/2007 20:40

to all those who love the 12 month -1 yr period come to my house now

imamummy they all do it dont they but I would love my own personal hole to climb into!!!!

divastrop · 09/06/2007 20:48

it depends on gender,as well.my ds2 was a dream untill he hit 2,then something happened to him....and now hes nearly 4 and i cant wait for him to start school!

on the other hand,i found my dd1 was most difficult from 1-2,then as soon as she could talk she was fine.untill recently,that is,she is now 8.5 and hormones are starting to kick in.help.

dd2 is 18 months and still a perfect little angel.dd3 is 3 months,i love that age,where the constant feeding/lack of sleep etc is over and they are all smiley and cute,but also immobile so you dont need eyes in your a**e.

ds1 is 9.5 and yet to have a 'nice' age

christywhisty · 09/06/2007 21:58

DS is now 11 and I find this has been my favorite time with him. He was a good baby but I think he has always had quite a lot of frustration as he was always incredibly independent from a baby. Always wanting to feed himself, do things for himself etc and now he is mature enough for the independence he wants.But he is still young enough for a cuddle from mum.

DD 9 was lovely until the last 6 months or so when hormones have kicked in.

lulabelsmum · 10/06/2007 11:06

I love the age my daughter is she is 13 months and I love watching her discover new things every day

My sons are 6 and 8 and they fight like mad, my 6 year old is at the age when he tells embarrasing stories to people

my 8 year old loves to chat and ask millions of questions but he thinks he knows everything also

Gobbledigook · 10/06/2007 11:08

Ds3 is at a fab age - 2.9. He talks well but is hilarious, is fearless, just really, relaly funny. Unfortunately he is very willfull too and is bloody hard work!

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