Just downstairs after spending and hour in the bathroom with dd age 3.9 years trying to get her to put her pjs on and brush teeth. 15 minutes of trying to get her to put them on beforehand. I said if she didn’t put them on we would both have to wait in the bathroom until she decided to. sat on bathroom floor while she screamed for 40 minutes. Finally put them on. Then refused to do teeth. 10 minutes of refusing. Said if she didn’t do it herself then mummy would have to hold her down to do them. Gave her two warnings. Finally had to hold her down and do them. She was screaming and rolling around. She bumped her head on the floor. She’s now in her bed asleep, finally. I feel awful now and just don’t know what to do. I didn’t want to have to hold her to do her teeth but it’s imporant that they are done...feeing like an awful parent and that she now will be scared of me doing he teeth. Everyday is feeling like a struggle at the moment, I managed to stay completely calm the whole evening until the tooth brushing incident. Sorry for the rant.