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Am I the only one??!!

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JLD1987 · 06/06/2018 22:01

After reading everything I needed to know about having a new baby, I spent weeks religiously sticking to what "experts" advised we should do with our babies at each week and what milestones they should hit when and what age. Trying to force a routine, eating at specific times etc.

Fast forward to now and I feel incredibly guilty and a little sad that I spent so much time making sure my DD was hitting targets and stuff that maybe I didn't enjoy those early weeks as much as I could have! I now know she would put herself into a routine when she was ready, she would smile, laugh and coo when she was ready and just all round do things in her own time. As a new mum, I felt like all I had was the advice in books and articles and thought that was how I had to follow things.

It's true what they say, time goes so fast, and I really wish I had relaxed a little more and just enjoyed those weeks when she was small!

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Tripleespressoandchocolate · 06/06/2018 22:27

Yes! I spent unnecessary time trying to get my then 12 week old into a napping routine that involved his cot. I read, I tried, I failed, I cried, I had many many discussions with poor DH .... And this cycle continued.

Now at 7 mo he isn't textbook perfect but he sleeps for a couple of hours in his cot- this happened spontaneously. No input from me whatsoever.

What a bloody waste of time, and how annoying I thought I was a rubbish mum.
These websites that say bad habits can form from 12 weeks (amongst other things) need to be banned

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