DS is 21 months. We have from the start tried to teach him about body consent in an age appropriate way: saying eg "Granny would like a hug, would you like to give her one?" Rather than "Give Granny a hug". Making sure that tickling games are instigated and stopped by him.
Recently he has started showing affection to other children. The other day in the park he spontaneously went up to a little girl about his own age and gave her a hug and a kiss.
My intellectual response was to gently suggest to him that she might not want a hug and kiss so he shouldn't do it. My emotional response was to go "aww" and to delight in and not curb his show of affection.
What would you do?
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Teaching about consent.
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Thistledew · 12/05/2018 21:26
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