My 3 year old has been in nursery since 10 months old and doesn't seem to be progressing much. I have trouble getting him in the room most morning, worsened dramatically if they change his usual room. He'll stop by the door, freeze, refuse to talk and often cry. He'll only go in if a member of staff takes him by the hand and this isn't always definate. If another child tries to talk to him he often looks away. He will say a few words to a couple of the staff members there but very limited such as needing the toilet. He has started to play with a couple of the children in his room but still doesn't seem confident having conversations with them. He chats away at home, although he was slow to start and struggle to understand some of what he says. He doesn't have friendships with other children outside of nursery either. Our neighbours 2.5 year old he will talk to in our house but outside of the house refuses to talk/wave etc he will just walk past him. He is very clingy to me so I assumed it may be just behavioural around me but others such as grandparents have also mentioned similar issues. If I have friends or family over that he either doesn't know or has seen in a few months he will either sit next to me silent or take himself off to another room and stay there until they go.