Hi
My DS is nearly 3. After multiple IVF's and miscarriages, to say he is much wanted child is an understatement.
My son was horrendous today from the moment we got up until he went to bed. After a conversation with my father, i now feel like shit and that i am doing it all wrong, all because i wont use smacking my DS as a form of discipline. Dont get me wrong, im not against it (within reason) but i dont want to inflict pain and fear into my son.
For discipline, i use time out, taking toys away, but i will admit, i struggle.
I tend to give in, not all the time, but some of the time and i do shout a little more often than i would like.
Ive come to bed feeling a really shit mother and very guilty.
Im so in love with my son but he seems to only be naughty with me or when i am around. He smacks, tells us to shut up (although both of these im sure is just for a reaction) and he just does not listen to instructions.
Im a loving mother, and in turn, he is a loving son. I cuddle, kiss him all the time and tell him how loved he is... but somewhere, im failing i feel.
My husband thinks there is something wrong, and i know what he thinks without asking... some sought of ADHD or autism but i have pretty much said he hasnt without really knowing what they are.
Is this just a phase? Or am i making a few cock ups here??
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Feel like a failure - hubby thinks something is wrong
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Rednailvarnish · 13/04/2018 21:34
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