please save my sanity. she is tantrumming after 1pm every day, which is when she used to have an afternoon nap. she is currently shouting and screaming in her cot in her room across the hallway from me. she will drop off to sleep soon, but is getting very strong willed about it. if she doesnt nap now, then she may not go off at all this afternoon and i will have a demon child till bedtime tonight.