Ds (3.10) can undress himself (although sometimes has difficulty with t-shirts, as he has a big head) and put on his pjs.
He CAN dress himslef, but will whinge about it. he needs help with his socks (GAP socks that don't come off - but are quite tight to put on) and his shoes (he has a high instep, so again, they can be a struggle to put on), but he can put his sandles (velcro) or Wellingtons on himslef (not always on the right feed).
I've never tried him with buttons - he rarely wears a shirt and all his trousers, even if they have a button/zip can be pulled up over his sake hips.
He can undo a zip on his jacket, but not start it.
He goes to the loo/potty himslef (he chooses for himself) and will put the wee down the loo himslef (AND sometimes rinses the potty), but doens't often flus unless reminded. He needs help after a poo (he'll shout for the help) with the wiping - although sometimes he will try to do it himslef, run through to the bedroom to check if he is clean and then run through to "show" us that he is clean
He eats for himself - did so from an early age: uses a spoon for his cornflakes and yoghurts, but prrefers his fingers when eating anything himslef (although can be encouraged to use a fork).
He will get his own yoghurts out the fridge/biscuits out the cupboard - but will ask before eating them. (Brought a bar of chocoalte into our bed this morning - and was disappointed when I said NO!)
He can brush his teeth pretty well, although we always supervise and then do a wee bit extra at the end.
He puts his own videos in on the mornings at the weekend, but again askes before doing so. He's not quite got the hang of changing over the SCART socket so that the DVD will work - but he's working on that! But he can change the DVDs over and is good about getting them in and out of their cases.
But most of all, he is good at GOING TO SLEEP ON HIS OWN!!!! For that we have been blessed!