I know my son is still very young, but he's hanging around with some really horrible kids at school. I've been to see his teacher about this. When I was just collecting my son from school, an older boy came up to me (I think he's about 7) and said that he is protecting my son to make sure he doesn't get bullied. Obviously, this is a lovely thing for a 7 year old to do, but I also want my son to not be a victim for these "friends" of his to pick on.
There's 3 of them in particular. It's not just my son they do it to, they do it to another one in their group, but my son is the smallest as well, which probably makes him more of a target for them.
From what my son says, this boy who's "protecting" him has taken it upon himself to look out for him, it wasn't something a teacher has said. My son said that this boy steps in when these other boys are "attacking" him. That was the word my son used.
I've spoken to my son about maybe hanging out with some other boys in this class, but he's not the most sociable of children.
He's such a lovely, kind natured child and I just hate the thought that these boys are pushing him around (literally pushing him around). He doesn't seem bothered by it at all, but obviously I am. Does anyone have any advice to toughen him up a little bit? Obviously, I don't want him to go and turn into some kind of bully himself, but I just want him to stand his ground and not take crap from these boys.
I thought putting him to the local football club might just help increase his confidence a little bit, but he's in a group of 5-7 year olds, and some of these kids are so good, that my son just doesn't really get the ball, so he finds it boring. I was wondering if karate might be a better step.
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How can I get my 5 year old to stick up for himself?
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susan198130 · 19/12/2017 16:08
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