A friend of mine has a 7 year old dd is who always seems to be off of school with either a cold or something, Its definately more than 5 days in a term, more like 8. She says that she gets run down because of the pressure put upon them by the school. I have no experience of 7 years old so I dont know about this. I think it might be because she goes to bed late, 10.00 on a school night, she is not a good eater either. She has also got a really short fuse and storms off if she cant get her own way, but on the right day she is just the most lovely child, very caring and very brigh. What time is a good time to be asleep by and are your children exausted by the end of term.