Hi everyone, I need some advice, I'm a first time mum so please be patient with me!
My little girl is 13 weeks old tomorrow, I need advice on how to get her into an established routine, on a good day 7am feed, sometimes a little play then normally she sleeps till 10:30/11, feed again at 2 ish, little play then sleep till 5:30/6 feeds then a little play, I say little this normally lasts 10/15 minutes as she gets angry and wants to be with me, sometimes in the evenings she will really fight her bottle and cries, most of the time I have to hold her as she just gets upset, most evenings I'm holding her sometimes she will sleep in my arms other times she just lays there eyes not completely closed. This is a good day. Other times her feed times are all over the place which messes her sleeps up. Would you wake a sleeping baby to try and stay within the same times per day? She also won't go to sleep on her own and likes to be cuddled, which I don't mind but when she's unhappy I can sit here for hours! How many hours a day should a 13 week old have or is that a silly question? She was 3 weeks premature too so not sure if that's why she wants to be with me, she doesn't settle with her dad too! She also had reflux which we now have under control (touch wood)! Thank you! Any help is greatly appreciated 