Have NC for this as it's very identifying but i really don't know what else to do.
I have a dss who lives with me who's 17. Has lived with me and DH for several years, bio Mum is no longer on the scene because to be frank she is a disgrace and made dss' life difficult in her attempts to ruin his relationship with his father. Obviously we understand that this was really hard and we have taken every step to get him help to deal with these issues.
The problem we have is that DSS attitude absolutely stinks. Flits from group to group of friends falling out with people and acting like it's never his fault. But the thing is not I'm fairly sure that it's mostly it's his fault 😔
The way he treats people mirrors his bio mothers attitude a lot of the time. Speaks to people like shit, is two faced and generally difficult for no reason. He does this to us as well. He's had to change colleges because of the issues.
DH is getting really frustrated because he does speak to his dad with such disrespect sometimes it's awful. Especially given the lengths his dad has gone to to protect him from his awful mother. Does anyone have any suggestions? 😩