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Do I need to seek help for 8-year old chasing cats?

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Jenxan · 06/09/2017 19:24

My 8-year old son is generally difficult, but has worsened in his behavior over the summer. He generally doesn't listen. One of the most distressing things is that he has taken to chasing the cats when he is bored. The younger cat tolerates his rather rough cuddles, but the older cat actively avoids him and freezes when he picks her up. He holds them in an uncomfortable way and runs after them, but doesn't do more than that. Asking him to be gentler, begging him to stop has had little effect.

Do I need to take my son to a psychologist? I have thought about getting rid of the cats, but thought it would be better to correct his behavior. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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KingIrving · 06/09/2017 21:33

What you need is discipline first. Tell him he has to leave the cats alone or they will be consequences. No TV/screen on that day, his favourite toy put in a black bin bag and away in garage for first warning, away for good at second, etc.....

He enjoys distressing them in the pretence of cuddles. Don't be fooled.

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