Hi all I'm in need of some advice please. My son age 3 has a reward jar which he is given a pasta piece to pop in each time he does a wee or or poo in the toilet. This works pretty well but he still has accidents.
His most recent agreed reward for filling it up is to go to legoland (it takes a long time to fill up and we had planned to take him there anyway).
We are due to go Wednesday as my husband is on holiday. We haven't bought the tickets yet. Recently he has been having more and more accidents. He has already earned the Lego trip because he filled it up but between then and now he had been having more and more accidents.
He has also started acting up more.
We have a 7 week old baby and I can't help but feel this is a contributing factor.
So do we cancel the trip and not reward his behaviour or do we go and make it clear what he is being rewarded for?
Or should we ask him to achieve something between now and then so he thinks he's being rewarded for that.
I don't want to break my promise but I don't like the way he has been behaving.
Any advice please!?!