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2.5 year old over excitable & no concept of personal space. Help!

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Screamer1 · 14/07/2017 18:54

I have a 2.5 year old ds who is sweet and funny. However when we socialise he sometimes gets really OTT excited, particularly with his cousin. He will start to 'paw' the other child and quite often this ends up with the other child crying or saying that ds has done something to them.

Obviously if I spot this behaviour I warn him and then if he doesn't respond I will remove him from the situation. But quite often this will just be an escalation of two young children playing together and then he takes it one step too far. I warn him and talk about appropriate behaviour with him. He says he understands, but it keeps happening. It's never malicious but it is inappropriate.

Please help with how I can address this better. I feel like this is my fault! It sometimes really ruins a perfectly nice day out. I do notice he's more susceptible to doing it when he starts to get tired, but I don't feel like that excuses it.

Help please!

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GlummyMummy · 14/07/2017 20:34

Watching with interest, Screamer, as my three year old daughter is exactly the same!!! I've had to stop going to a lot of the groups we go to because she was getting over excited and being "rough" with other kids, but in a friendly, playful way.

I've tried everything to try to manage her behaviour so hopefully someone will have some suggestions for us both!

Screamer1 · 14/07/2017 20:43

I hope so glum my! Does your dd go to nursery?

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GlummyMummy · 14/07/2017 20:46

Not at the moment, though she does go to lots of different groups through the week. She is very sociable and loves playing with other kids, will run up to kids at play parks and try to get them to play with her

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