DD is 16 months old.
I cannot take her anywhere anymore, she is so hyperactive I can't keep up. Everywhere we go someone comments on how "mental" (said in jest but was still upsetting), "full on" or "hyper" she is. I paid to take her to a toddler cinema today, every other child was sat still on their parents lap or on a bean bag.
My child? Running around screaming, pulling at cords, touching the screen. I was getting dirty looks and someone suggested I take her outside for a bit if she couldn't sit still. So we left 15 minutes in. 
She also likes to run around in circles shaking her head violently making loud noises.
I'm a single SAHM (also first time mum), I spend a lot of time with her and I parent her gently, I'm a very calm person. She runs around all day, has hardly any naps and never sleeps at night.
I'm crying typing this as I just don't know what to do, I've never met a child like this. She won't even sit on me and cuddle me, for all my trying, she literally never sits still not even to eat. I love her very much and just want her to be able to go places and interact with other children without their parents commenting on her behaviour, she is such a lovely and happy child, excess of energy aside.
She won't even play with toys, just throws them around or rips up her books.
She hardly eats anything either, what little she does eat is healthy, no refined sugar or sugary drinks. I can't think where this behaviour is coming from. We have a family nurse from the family nurse partnership who has also mentioned she's abnormally hyperactive.
What can I do? Am I doing something wrong? Am I overreacting? Does anyone else's child behave like this? I just want to sit and cuddle my baby once in a while I feel I'm missing out on things other parents can do because she just doesn't stop. I'm back to work come September and I'm worried no childminder will be able to cope with her. 