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My mum, the granny!!

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Mamme · 07/07/2017 21:28

I can't believe it!!
I've just talked to my mum on skipe, and her was rude with my daughter like she was 1 month ago.
She called her with bad names, just because my daughter didn't want to stay in front of the camera.
And what it's worse, I didn't say anything..
I'm so mad at me and at my mother too.
The problem is that my mother takes everything as they were a personal issue, my daughter is just 6 of age, but i' wondering how is the child here!
Please answer..

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ashleexex · 08/07/2017 08:31

What exactly is the question?
If you disagree with your mum you need to stand up, it took me a while with my mum to have the confidence to say what I think is best but at the end of the day that child is yours and you know best, your mum should respect that if she loves and cares for you both. If your daughter is 6 years old ofcourse she won't want to stay in front of the camera for too long she's probably wanting to go play after a few minutes most children would.

Purplemamma · 09/07/2017 09:53

Thanks for replying, yes i have to stand up her, but it's not easy. She is really selfish and she ( my mother) wants to be always the protagonist of the situation, and when she is not, she overreacts, it's so frustrating and annoying.
A sent to her a couple of recorded messages by what's up.
She replied but I canceled her message.
I didn't want to argue with her, besides, i had already told her what i wanted.
She always wins when we argue, she thinks she is always right and makes always you feel wrong.
I know that for a fact so i let her waiting fro my answer for one day and than a sent a message to her telling that I couldn't listen her message, and I said that i was ok because i had already told her what i had to say. I reassured her about the fact that i'm absolutely fine about her.
I will see her in 1 week, I will be back to Italy. We will see.

ashleexex · 09/07/2017 11:19

Just remember you're the mum of your child so you can take opinions and listen but it's your call you know what's best for your child make sure she knows that ❤️❤️

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