hi
My eldest daughter is 7. She is becoming more and more aggressive as the time goes on.
I have a 3 year old and I'm 36 weeks pregnant and I'm now finding it impossible to look after her. I feel like a complete failure.
when she was little she was so lovely and easy to look after.
now she punches kicks swears and spits and won't listen to a word anyone says.
she is unbearably rude and I have spent the last 2 weeks in tears daily over her behaviour.
At school she is a model student, top of the class, always chosen for things as she's so well behaved, never been in trouble. however she comes home and honestly you would think she had been raised by animals.
She screams like she is being murdered over nothing for instance just now I put sun cream on her and because she didn't like how it felt she blew her fuse and ended up laying on the dining room floor telling me she was going to punch me in the stomach and kill the baby.
She did the same this morning and her dad sorted it out and the moment he left to go to golf she started again.
The other day she didn't want peppers in her dinner so her dad removed them and gave them to our youngest who likes them and because of this she once again was screaming blue murder, I am honestly surprised no one has called the police after hearing her it's awful.
She's so different at school then at home and I'm starting to lose the will to live with her. we used to be so close I just don't know what's happened.
She tells me she hates me daily. all her anger is taken out on me and she's getting stronger and more aggressive by the day. I have to take her sister away from her as she gets caught up in it.
please help. any advice please.