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DD has just failed her hearing test! Help!

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Yellowbelly · 17/03/2007 21:51

Hi
I'm hoping that there might be someone out there with experience of hearing problems who can offer me information or reassurance. My daughter, age 7, just told me last week that she can only hear the person on the telephone when she holds it to her right ear. I arranged a hearing test at school and as predicted she heard nothing at all on her left side.(it was headphones where she had to clap when she heard a sound) She has been referred to the hospital but in the mean time I'm desperately trying to find some possible explanations. She was 6 weeks early and never passed her initial hearing test but was signed off by the audiologist at 18 mths because her speech was so good. She has always had a problem with her balance, but when she was 5 we discovered that her eye sight was quite poor so she now has glasses. Now I'm wondering whether a hearing problem in one ear could have been causing a problem with her balance all this time? I'm just feeling like the world's worst Mum. She spent the first 5 years not being able to see properly and now I don't think I can stand it if I've also failed to notice a hearing problem!

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nikkie · 17/03/2007 21:56

Hearing (well inner ear problems ) can certainly be linked to balance.
You can't blame yourself as she is now 7 she must have realised before?Is is possibly something that comes and goes and thats why you/she never noticed it before?

Yellowbelly · 17/03/2007 22:17

Thanks Nikkie
Yes it did occur to me that maybe it comes and goes although when I asked her how long it had been like that she said it had always been like it! I don't know whether she would have realised if it had always been like it? I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it's not permanent.
Thanks

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frances5 · 17/03/2007 22:18

I'm sorry that your daughter has problems with her hearing.

Please don't blame yourself. Prehaps you should blame the audiologist. He/ She was extremely unprofessional. It is possible to do an accurate test on a child as young as 18 months, particularly if they have good speech. Infact for an audiologist to make a detailed audiogram of a baby's hearing.

This is a good website

www.ndcs.org.uk/

My son has severe glue ear. I had no idea that he had a hearing impairment until he was almost expelled from pre school and I demanded a referal to a community paediatrian at the age of two and half. If I failed to notice that my son had a problem with both ears its not surprising that you missed it.

The school hearing tests are very primative. I hope the audiologist will find that she has some hearing in her bad ear even if it is very limited.

Audiologistmummy · 17/03/2007 22:19

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Yellowbelly · 17/03/2007 22:26

Wow! Thanks so much for your replies. I thought I might be lucky to get any kind of response. She is getting on pretty well at school really, but her teachers do tell us that she lacks concentration. I found some information about glue ear but it said it usually clears up within a few months - I didn't realsie that it could come and go? So possibly the hearing loss has come and gone although the lady who did the test did seem quite surprised that she didn't respond at all with her left ear. Thanks again

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Yellowbelly · 17/03/2007 22:28

Yes, sorry. She responded perfectly to the test on the right ear buy nothing at all on the left. Is it possible that she maybe just said that she couldn't hear it?

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Audiologistmummy · 17/03/2007 22:30

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Audiologistmummy · 17/03/2007 22:32

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Yellowbelly · 17/03/2007 22:33

Thanks for your replies 'audilogistmummy' Feeling better already!

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