Hi everyone.
I am 25 years old, been with my partner 11 years he soon to turn 30 years old and we have just recently just found out I am 4 weeks pregnant. We have never had this before. I am allergic to latex so the pill is the only option. I have recently lost roughly 5ish stone in weight and said I am going to stop taking the pill as it was interfering with my weight and my cycle. Normally every 28 days has been a nightmare since going on the pill after being on the depo injection.
So I tell him and his reaction is I DONT WANT THIS, I'm not ready. He hasn't been supportive at all and said if we didn't find out you was pregnant I would have proposed. He is currently in the process of setting up a new business and we are going to move into a flat we was going to eventually buy. He cried the other night and said I don't think I want this, I don't feel ready, I think
Maybe you should have an abortion. He keeps swapping and changing his mind on what he wants to do. He reassures me that he will love me no matter my descison BUT then he say we can't predict the future we might not work out. I have wanted a baby with him for some time now as I love him all the world and want to share this with him. I don't believe he had any intentions on proposing to me. Problem is I can't leave him because I love him. I booked the termination for the14th June then he says I don't want you to get rid of it. Then he changes his mind.
We have a few heavy bags in our place we are currently staying and he won't pick it up for me and says I'm being over dramatic and it's not hormones. He doesn't know what he wants and because I love him I'll do what he wants. Please help me with some advice!
Thank you xx
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He doesn't want the baby
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unsure25 · 29/05/2017 18:34
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