Three and five ds's do not get on anymore

[Fairyfly]

This has been going on for two weeks now and today i have had enough, usually i take my kids in my stride and get on with it but THEY NEVER LET UP. They don't play together, they don't laugh together, they used to be friends. Now constantly at each others throats, always telling me what the other one has done.Very a destructive, the place is wrecked. They hurt each other, it is all getting a bit manic. I am sick to death of splitting them up, tonight was the final straw when the youngest spat in his elder brothers dinner. Is this it now, have i two hooligans? Is there anything i can do to bond the pair of them. Please help

I'm laughing now, where on earth have they learnt thats what you do when apparently your brother stinks... just found them again and eldest has ripped the head off youngest boys action man, psycho children. I have put them to bed and said things are going to be changing round here, i sound like my mother

I am crying and burying my head in my hands, mentally exhausting, both in bed now

Thanks but i think they will stay there after seeing my eyes go bright red, listening to Only Women Bleed by Tori Amos now, i have a feeling i am due on, be afraid