hiya
my son keeps saying things like 'mum pulled my hair' 'mum hit me' 'dad pushed me over' ect
obviously we are not doing these things but its worrying me when he says these things.
Its come from him hitting his little brother,
he will push him, he goes on the naughty rug and we say 'you must not hit/punch/ push your little brother' ect
and when he gets upset he says that someone has done them to him.
an example was yesterday when he pushed a girl at the park - he told me she had pushed him, but i watch him very carefully when around other kids and she didnt touch him
anyways my friend was here yesterday and he threw a toy at his little brother and i picked him up to go on the naughty rug and he screamed 'owww you pulled my hair'
i obviously hadnt (!) and my friend beared witness to it all
later he repeated it to my mum - and she said 'she better not have done - ill kill her' but in all seriousness!!!
like i would pull my sons hair!!
i dont know how to stop him fibbing,
im worried hewill say something like this in front of the HV or something when having his jabs
or am i just worrying over nothing??