My youngest (of 4) is really worrying me at the minute. He started primary one recently and consistently told me he was being bullied and so convincing was he that I went and spoke to the teacher. (A parent approached me in the playground to tell me her daughter had noticed DS being bullied in playground so I know something was happening!) she said she would keep and eye and at the same time told me he was not mixing well with other kids. Choosing activities he could do himself. He constantly talks about being picked on and tells me no one likes him. Outside school he goes to Football lessons and tonight he refused to play because a girl had taken the ball he was playing with. No amount of talking could persuade him back in the room so he ended up sitting on his own at the side and I brought him straight home with no treats as I was so cross with him.
My third son has Autism and I think as they are very close in age the youngest has some learned behaviour. He also looses his temper very easily and no amount of talking or persuasion will talk him down. I just don't know where to start! Is it acceptable to speak with his teacher about how to deal with this behaviour.