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How to deal with 3yr old boys....any advice?

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Chipstick · 21/01/2007 19:03

My dd now 6 was such a lovely toddler/pre-schooler. My days off work were such a pleasure-we sailed through the terrible twos, never a on-the-shop-floor tantrum it was great. Then, along came her brother!

He will be 3 in a few weeks, and I have to say that at the moment I don't really like being a mummy. This has been a terrible weekend-especially whilst visiting other peoples houses.

He's shouted constantly, thrown things, hit his sister. At one house he found a bottle of tippex and covered himself in it. At the next house, he discovered the litter tray and picked up a couple of handfuls of litter (not pooh thank god!) and put it in my relatives flower vase. I've got to the point where I'm refusing invites to peoples houses because I can't face taking him there.

If I tell him off he laughs, sent him to his room this afternoon which helped me calm down more than him but if I'm out with him I obviously can't do that.

Being from an all girl family, I'm not used to boys, one minute he is so cuddly and kind the next a monster.

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Chipstick · 22/01/2007 19:27

Girls are definitely more independant than boys. My DD from a very young age wanted to do things 'on her own' and cuddles were always on her conditions.

Even though I started this thread because my ds is driving me insane, I can ask for a cuddle whenever and get it from him. He'll pretend not to know where something is so I have to go with him - holding hands, of course. Everything he does whether playing with cars, watching dvds, eating all have to involve Mummy, if I'm not there Daddy has to do!

So very trying, but utterly adorable in other ways.

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Overrun · 22/01/2007 20:19

Sorry for the slight hijack every one else, but Filly, califrau,Sheraz and ejt1764, this a bit like doing a poll of where to go and where not to go Filly, I find Roath quite bearable, and Jump is so expensive with the three, and so big that I am run ragged chasing them. Califrau, I like Llanishen as well, as although it is quite small there is a nice atmosphere there.
I don't know about Runabouts Sheraz, I am always open to any suggesions though if you find it. Unless you are thinking of the gym place?
Did Roath soft play today actually, and then I must admit that it was just too cold so I stayed in this afternoon.Needless to say they drove me potty

katylou25 · 22/01/2007 20:19

Really wierd reading about jump and roath park in this thread - they're my desperation places. Also love victoria park and Ezeeplay in newport is always quieter if you don't mind a twenty minute car ride. My ds1 has just turned two and needs excerising daily or else we reach cabin fever levels by about 4 oclock. One day last week dh had car, had ill ds2 so just chucked ds1 in garden with wellies and waterproofs on in torresntial rain and gales because couldn't cope anymore - but 10 minutes out there did the trick he came back in and sat on the floor playing trains nicely! (instead of climbing on dining table racing up and down stairs trying to roll ds2 (4 months around the room) etc etc

Sheraz · 22/01/2007 20:25

My brother lives on Victoria Park Road - great in the summer. HAve to say we go down to Barry Island a lot for a run around on the beach and then fish and chips to warm out ( even at this time of year). The local castles are good for playing soldiers - we like Caerphilly and Raglan.

Overrun · 22/01/2007 20:28

I have wondered whether Eezyzone was any good, might just try it. I keep meaning to go to victoria park as well. Cefn Onn park in Lisvane is nice for a stroll. Also went to Margam country park yesterday, which was great for moseing around, but after March it will be better as there is an adventure playground, a train and some other things. Have you ever been to St Fagans I always enjoy going there as well.
I didn't realise there were so many South Wales posters

Overrun · 22/01/2007 20:29

Castles and beaches also brill, Sheraz do you really go to Barry island at this time of year? I think seaside towns are so despondant in the winter, but maybe a little bit romantic being on a windswept beach (although not with the chilren )

ejt1764 · 22/01/2007 20:44

love going to Barry Island in the winter - tho' not when it's windy!!

Porthkerry park is good too - shingly beach, and loads of space to run around.

St Fagan's is probably ds's favourite place (we have a prepaid parking permit!) - I hate the little playground there, find it too dangerously slippy in the wet ....

On the barrage, there is also the sand park - tho' it's a bit of a trek ... ds likes to ride his bike - it's flat and staight, so they can pick up enormous speeds!

Also try Duffryn Gardens - tho' that's quite pricey ...

Our local park is bl£$%y rubbish!

There's a really good park on Albert Road tho ugh - the local residents have got together and raised money to do it up ....

ejt

ejt1764 · 22/01/2007 20:45

also can't believe the number of South Wales posters here!

ejt

Sheraz · 22/01/2007 21:06

Oh my God we go to St Fagns at least 4 times ayear and always take vistors there who are do impressed by it! Agree about the slippery park though. We Welsh MNers should wear a little M pin badge or something and have a secret wave! We probaly pass each other in raoth or Easyplay - wierd!!

Sheraz · 22/01/2007 21:06

We like Cosmeston Lakes too in Penarth!

ejt1764 · 22/01/2007 22:14

Like Cosmeston - but I'm phobic about birds so don't go very often!! dh has to come to supervise feeding of the ducks / swans - all of which seem psychotic ....

nice bike rides around there, though.

ejt

Califrau · 22/01/2007 22:23

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Sheraz · 23/01/2007 09:48

Welsh boys must be wilder than the average boy!

Lact8 · 23/01/2007 15:32

Well said Sheraz, as the mother to 2 Welsh boys I whole hearedly agree!

But judging by the behaviour of my 13mth DD it doesn't just affect the boys...she is a willing pupil at DS2's school of naughtiness, she's been climbing up onto the table and dancing and has taken to head banging aswell and then ROFL at herself..I thought I had at least another year before she started. Have a tag team to contend with now!

Overrun · 24/01/2007 19:14

So nice reading about all these familiar landmarks, but we wouldn't have to wear a badge if we actually managed to sort out a meet up. We have been trying for months and to my knowledge unless I have been missed out, it hasn't happenend yet

Tups · 24/01/2007 19:16

Hi, is anyone able to offer me advice on my 3 year old girl at Nursery? It's not her that I need advice on!!
Thanks

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